"IF YOU CAN'T GET WHAT YOU WANT, TRY TO BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE"................ Don't know where I read this but someone very rightly said those lines.LIFE itself is a very big puzzle, which is impossible to solve by man in their entire life. And when LIFE betrays with someone, it really hurts very brutlly.
Every human being wants something from life. They all have some wishes, some hopes, some expectations(big or small). It is natural from every point of view. As i also belong to that normal human being category, I too had many expectations from life, which I thought will b fulfilled by LIFE.....And I did all possible things to fulfill those expectations. But as time passed by LIFE started to show its cruel side which was really very much horrible and hard to believe.
People say that "HIGH EXPECTATIONS ARE THE KEY TO EVERYTHING"............ But is it really true...????? It may be true for someone, but for me the word expectation means nothing. I expected or wished so many things in my life but till now I have got nothing instead of sorrows, restlessness and sleepless nights. It has been always hurting me like anything. It is not that I expected such huge kinda things in life. I know my limits, i know what i am and i sorted my expectations according to that only. But still it didn't work at all. Now how can i say that Higher expectations are key to everything" when the least expectation of mine haven't fulfilled.
Is it wrong or am i doing anything unusual by expecting a few small things from life..?? If not then why it is only giving me such pain instead of a little happiness. I also want to be happy like the other people which i think isn't wrong at all.
Life is becoming hell now-a-days for me. Have been passing sleepless nights for a long time. Completely fed up with life.......Desperately in need of some happiness.......I also wanna smile like you peolple.....
Can anyone help me please..???
Can anyone tell me the way to happiness without expectations......???
Jidina Tumi Aahisila, 
পৃথিৱীখন বহুত সলনি হ’ল.......
Logori Hoi Saba Sun,
Eiya Ek Ovinab Jatraa
Life is all about not knowing what's going to happen, living the un-expected life. Life is about surprises, whether it's good or bad. In Life, there will be people that come & go. But the one's that means the world to you will stay in your heart forever whether there with you or not, but think to yourself at this very moment, could you honestly imagine life to be any different once he o......r she is gone? it's true some people just cannot be replaced, their names are printed in your heart. But there some people, that will tend to use you for things, mess you about, telling you lies & making you cry, These just are some of the characteristics of a person that isn't worth the time, aren't worth all the tears that they made you shed. but just think to yourself, as your probably thinking, well he/she told me they loved me, told me they meant the world to them. But if they really did, then why are you feeling like this now? ..
In life, you have to learn who to trust & who to not. Trust is, i think the most important gift anyone can give to you.. Putting their trust into you, knowing if they do tell you something important or personal, that you won't tell anyone else. Trusting you to not cheat, or lie in a relationship. Without trust there's no love. END OF.
So I've finished chasing people around, playing games. I had no intentions of and trying to please people who don't deserve any place in my life. Its time I move on and i'm thankful to those out there who made me realise this.
Life is becoming hell now-a-days for me. Have been passing sleepless nights for a long time. Completely fed up with life.......Desperately in need of some happiness.......
Paari Thoisu Moromor Dolisa
